Finding Love

Keeping Your Love Alive & Well
By Jon Terrell, M.A.

Are you having trouble finding love?

Do you worry that you won’t ever have a deeply loving relationship?

Do you struggle with fully expressing your self in relationships?

Do you sometimes feel isolated or lonely, carrying around old pain?

Do you feel that you are going around in circles, trapped in the same old relationship problems?

Do you want to clear out the blocks to living a life based on LOVE? And live a life filled with love?

I am a psychotherapist and retreat leader who helps people create loving, trusting, long lasting relationships. I work with adults who:

• struggle with finding love
• have difficulty keeping love alive
• feel cut off from love 
• feel out of touch with their feelings
• are trapped in uncomfortable emotions 

People come to our deep emotional healing retreats from all over the world. Many people attend these events to work through uncomfortable feelings, especially grief, anger and fear. Others attend who are just stuck in their lives. All come because they want to love and be loved.

It Isn't Your Fault

First, I want to say that there is probably nothing wrong with you! It isn't your fault that you feel stuck, are in emotional pain, or are having trouble finding a relationship that works.

You may hear the critical inner voices that tell you that you are:

• Not Smart Enough
• Not Intelligent Enough
• Not Good Looking Enough

These voices may have a positive intent of protecting you from being hurt, but they are a poor strategy for finding love. These voices need an upgrade, and our retreats can help you do that. Our retreats will help you upgrade your emotional intelligence.

Our world doesn't do a good job of teaching emotional intelligence, of helping people learn how to love and be loved.

You may have tried different forms of self-help or sought help from others, but it hasn't been as effective as you hoped.

No one has handed you the guidebook of how to love successfully, of how to live a life filled with LOVE and everything love promises.

Guidance For Finding Love

There is that guide, but for many of us it lies hidden and dormant--inside of each of us. My work...at retreats and one-on-one... is about helping people learning to connect with this guidance.

It is as if there is a compass inside of us that is buried. As we unearth it and get it operating again, it will lead us to exactly where we need to go.

As you discover your inner guidance, and learn to apply the Skills of Loving that we teach, everything will change, because THE POWER OF LOVE changes everything it touches.

And, as you live into LOVE, your life transforms, as well as all your relationships. Obstacles dissolve and your whole world opens  up. Your natural inner light will shine brighter and brighter.

Our Retreats Are A New Beginning

Our retreats are a start, often a huge start, as I try to convey in my personal story below. (For me, I needed several retreats to change my difficult finding love story.)

The retreats can give your self-esteem a big boost. And with that boost, you can do the work you need to do to move you towards your goal of finding love. First off, it's learning to love yourself, which often arrives with that first retreat.

We may need a few retreats if we've been beaten down in life by loss and old emotional pain. And. We may also need specific help from certain types of therapy to heal our life story. These can include work on childhood issues and work with different parts of ourselves that have been caught in patterns that keep us stuck. We may need to work on our communication skills and basic life skills. A good therapist can help us identify these areas that we need to work on. And it doesn't have to take years and years to heal ourselves and learn new skills and behaviors. But we do need to start doing the life work we need to find love and healing.

A Brief Personal Story

About 25 years ago, I found myself stuck. None of my previous skills or training helped. After a lot of searching and the encouragement of my therapist, I finally got the help I needed.

I attended a retreat that changed my life. (I now lead retreats like that!) My heart opened up in a way I had only dreamed possible. I still have work to do...we all do. But I've had a huge change inside...I've filled that hole inside of me...with love.

And I did my personal work, which included attending several retreats to heal my past.

As I did my personal work, I realized that what I enjoy most is helping people live life fully and joyously, present and loving in this and every moment. So I trained to lead retreats and geared my work toward helping people who were stuck like me and unable to find love that worked for them. I learned to love myself and feel alive, passionate, and joyful. You can too.

There is a deep LOVE inside each of us that we all long to express. At our core, we all long to LOVE and be LOVED.

Getting The Help You Need

Our unique approach to working with clients synthesizes over 50 years of my experience as a psychotherapist, retreat leader, meditation teacher, and energy practitioner. Clients receive a proven program that directly connects them with their own power of LOVE and that achieves deep, lasting results, often in just one weekend.

You can start finding love with one of our deep emotional healing retreats. Here, you can transform your old stuck story by working through old feelings. Here you can stop blaming yourself (or others) and find deep healing. Here is where you can find that inner guidance, that compass. 

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